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Categories of identity, behavior, and desire

Categories and terms to indicate sexual identity have existed for as long as humanity has. However, adopting them into the academic cannon and common parlance has only been done in recent years. Many of these names, originally used in derogatory contexts, have been reclaimed by those who identify as people of alternative sexualities. These terms have been drawn from several countries, contexts and languages; and many of them denote very specific behaviors and identities. While it is true that gender and sexual desires are fluid and mutable, terms of identity can form a powerful locus for empowerment, action, resistance, and community. In addition, although heteronormativity is taken as an inherent given of relationship structures, it is also important to recognize that alternative sexual practices and lifestyles, such as polyamory, swinging, open relationships, role-playing, and BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism) can also provide a significant mode of resistance to heteronormative structures that dictate monogamy, heterosexuality, and rigidly divided sexual roles and practices between people.

Given below is a list of categories and terms used to denote various sexual identities, orientations, behaviors, and desires. While this collection is by no means exhaustive, it is indicative of the various sources that have contributed and influenced gender and queer studies. Many of the terms are cross-listed as a reflection of the dizzying multiplicity of available identities, orientations, and desires across sexual and gendered categories.

 

Gender

Heterosexual

Men with
same-sex desires

Women with
same-sex desires

Alternative Gender
Categories

Male

Bi-Curious

Bi-Curious

Bi-Curious

Bi-Curious

Female

Straight

Gay

Lesbian

Transsexual

Masculine

Metrosexual

Fag

Dyke

Transgender

Feminine

Macho

Twink

Butch

Hijra

Babe

Kothi

Femme

Aravani

Panthi

Tomboy

Intersex

Nancy Boy

Drag King

Hermaphrodite

Sissy

Trannyboi

Homosexual

Trannygrrl

MSM

Crossdresser

Drag Queen

Drag Queen

Drag King

Gender Bender

Third Sex

Transman

Transwoman

 

 

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